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Going Tangent


Life is filled with circular activities. You go to bed, wake up, have a breakfast, do your job, stay glued to your mobile, go to sleep at night & this cycle repeats. With repeatition comes pattern & with pattern comes stagnation. You know what comes from stagnation ? Death. Yeah, you heard that right. Not necessarily the death of your body, but it's the death of your soul. 

So what do you do then ? 

Simple, You break free from your pattern. You leave your circle & start going along a tangent. It means you do something different. Something that surprises you, something that excites you & something that lits a candle in your dying soul.  

Now please don't get me wrong. It can be your job too that excites you. May be you have an amazing time sitting in front of your computer & your mind just goes wild. May be you love talking to people & close a deal (The wolf of wallstreet vibe). That's incredible. But for most people, as I know, that's not the case. 

For many its quite drastic. Something like going for a long bike ride, going for trekking, paragliding, hitting the gym, going to your nearest waterpark & even asking someone out for dinner. Anything that pushes you beyond your comfort is to be welcomed. 

Who knows one day a miracle happens & your tangent lands you on an entirely different circle beyond your conceivable imagination.

By the way, Happy New Year in advance. You rock. 

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